H8Rs

It's a sad fact that a word such as "Haters" exists today...and yet it perfectly describes some people.  As such a pop culture phrase, it is even the name and topic of a new television show on the CW network, appropriately titled, "H8R".

Recently, I've decided that the little troll that stalks my pages and tries to imitate me in what she considers "funny" ways is simply a young, inexperienced, immature "hater".  Not sure why...I've done things for this person and her family that I don't do for just anyone--and yet, she continues to try and poke her style of "fun" at me and mine.  I am an adult and she is a child...and yet, I have to admit, it annoys the hell out of me; but I do recognize in the end, she is only making herself look bad.  Interestingly, she has a circle of friends who regularly tip me off to her new, inappropriate acts toward me.  She continues to believe she rules her world and makes her friends laugh.  I expect this will soon come to an end and these people are getting fed up with her antics. 

It's sad, but we all have to sleep in the bed we make for ourselves.  Enjoy your dwindling friendships, my little troll...people are beginning to see through that facade you show them.

And for anyone wondering...what exactly does "hater" mean...below are a few definitions from   UrbanDictionary.com that shed light on this new term:

	hater
	A person that simply cannot be happy for another person's success. So rather than be happy they make a point of exposing a flaw in that person. Hating, the result of being a hater, is not exactly jealousy. The hater doesn't really want to be the person he or she hates, rather the hater wants to knock someone else down a notch.     Hater A person who feels anger and/or jealousy for someone who has succeeded in something they have worked hard for. A being who speaks badly,and/or takes negative actions in attempt to create problems for a successful person.   hater A person who pretends to act happy for your successes than trash talks you behind your back. Someone who most likely doesn't have shit to work with and has to hate on people who move up in the world. This term could be used to describe anyone who hates on another person for 'good reasons. They will turn your good qualities around and make it look like something bad because they just aren't happy with themselves and can't achieve anywhere near what you have.   And finally...found this list of quotes from a girl named Ashley, which perfectly fit my love of quotations!   Got a hater in your life? You might like these quotes! 1. Always forgive your enemies; nothing annoys them more. 2. Don't hate me because I'm beautiful; hate me because... Well, okay. Hate me because I'm beautiful. 3.  Hating is the sincerest form of flattery.  4. Don't hate what you can't imitate. 5. Haters only hate the things that they can't get and the people they can't be. 6. If you don't like me remember it's mind over matter; I don't mind and you don't matter. 7. It's better to be hated for who you are than to be loved for who you are not. 8. Love me or hate me. Either way I'm on your mind.   9. So many assume. So little know.  10. They can't hurt you unless you let them.